For a little perspective, check out "Coming Clean ~ Part 1"
2014 has been a haphazard year for MyWorld :(
I think it's time I put my cards on the table....
~ The short Version ~
As of last week,
I am officially Legally Seperated.
~ The Long Version ~
Last New Years Eve, I bit the bullet and called his bluff. After being told countless times to pack my shit and leave, I decided that was definitely the best course of action for my daughter and I to take. To put it mildly, "hubby" and I had been growing apart for some time now, making the good times of the past, very distant, hazy memories.
I've been working my ass off to get organized and packed, while my daughter finished her school year, sleeping in her own bed, in this house that never really felt like Home.
I have 'till July 2nd, because that's the date I chose, to get the hell out of here. My calendar is full from dust to dawn as I salvage My Life from this mess... parts of me that were cast aside "for the sake of peace" and in my book, deserve to see the light of day when I rebuild my life.
I have hopes for a happy future as I find Our New Home. Starting with the day I can step foot outside this door knowing my daughter and my pets are safe. And all the things I care about are awesomely stacked in my Storage. Since I have to start over... I'm doing it on My Terms ;-)
It's been a long hard road... but as my new blog catch phrase says : Adventure Awaits!
I am sooo looking forward to life as a free bird. Come July second, I'm gonna load up the Crossover and hit the road... ;-)
And wherever I go, MyWorld is coming with me. This blog, and all you guys and galls have been My Escape over the past couple years, My Safe Place :-) and I'm looking forward to lots more sharing... I don't have time to play yet, but soon, very soon... :D
Stay Tuned to MyWorld as I head "Home" :-)
41 comments:
Good luck to you I hope your new freedom is all that you hope it will be.I will be waiting for the bloggage to pick up just like everybody else.Don't get in no hurry though I'll still be around.
My wishes and prayers are with you. I have been in your position. May you find what is good for you.
I found mine. May you find yours.
I was hoping that this was what was happening! You deserve the best in your life. HUGS!! ---Ray
Miss K: Somethings are broken and can be fixed, some are beyond repair. Relationships are like that, too. You have our good wishes for your future, and the knowledge that you can always rely on us for free advice, that is worth every cent you pay for it!
Bonne chance!
You're doing what's necessary for you and your daughter, that's the important point.
My question, though, is are you going to keep your igloo? ;)
Prayers sent up, post when you can, we're here for you. :)
Figgered it were something like that.
Thre will be many who will give advice.
My best suggestion: do what you think is best, and BE Yourself. Remember to take a deep breath before going apeshit or making a decision when you are peeved.
Ignore the rest of us, myself included.
If you get breast implants will you post pictures of them?
Take all the time you need. A lot of us have been there, done that and have an idea of what you're going through. We are here for you. Take care of yourself and mini-you first.
My only comment is ....what took you so long?
I've been reading your blog for a while,and the only times you mentioned your other half has been to complain.
You are (or at least seem to be)a clever girl,and have your daughter to worry about.You need to be free to be yourself and be a good example to her-be all you can be,and don't let someone put you down.
Full speed ahead,and don't look back.We'll help if you need it.
Kinda figured that something like this was on the horizon.
Been there, done that. The horizons and possibilities are endless.
As always, if you need anything, and I do mean anything, do not hesitate to say so.
You might be surprised how many folks would help at the drop of a hat, no questions, no strings attached.
Take care and take it one day at a time.
Be patiently waiting to hear from you.
Bob
III
I did it in 97, changed my life. God speed and best of luck. Cant wait to hear all about the new life of adventure.
I'll pray for your health and well being. And if you ever get to Resume Speed, Texas, where life stays sweet, look the Pugs and me up.
MissK,
You do not know me, I do not know your circumstances. Be as it may, when a person asks for help, I try my best to give what I can. Whatever your decision, whatever the outcome, I pray God gives you strength and perseverance to achieve whatever you wish for in your life. Via con Dios.
It's never good when a relationship ends. It's worse when it involves children. Granted, she's old enough to know what is happening, but it doesn't make it any easier.
I don't have any advise save this - do what is right for you and her. The rest will take care of itself.
Take care darlin'. Good luck and God speed. We'll be waiting for ya!
Leigh
Whitehall, NY
Happy Trails sweetie,
Dusty
I came along late in the game but from what I have seen this is just what the doctor ordered. May the rest of your life, and your daughters, be much easier. Good luck and god bless.
jack
Nous attendons votre retour à bras ouverts.
So where's the road gonna take yous. Are you staying in Cananada:) or down in the States? I hope your tip jar gave you some gas money so you can find the sweet spot..Happy days are coming..
Greenbow
GOOD LUCK AND ALL THE BEST HAVE STOPPED BY FOR A LONG TIME AND ENJOY IT HERE. LOOKING FORWARD TO A FUTURE WHERE YOU ARE IN A HAPPY PLACE. FIRST TIME I HAVE SAID ANYTHING
Well, congratulations on the separation, I kinda figured it was coming. Good luck as a free woman, and I hope you find what you need the most in your, and your daughters new home.......... ;)
All the best in your new life. like others I have been through it a few times. Watch out for the guys who think they see a weakness. But happy times are there, and I hope you find them.
Good luck to you and your daughter. Don't get too stressed out! Take some breaks from the moving b.s.--it is a pain in the a-- doing it by yourself on a deadline! Take the time to enjoy a Corona (or two, or three...)
I guess bad stuff happens along with the good, so sorry to hear about the breakup, but hope everything works out well for you.
Thanks guys, Merci :-)
Y'all make me smile... HUGS to My Regulars ;-)
I do plan on keeping the igloo, Grog. As I mentioned in a previous post, it may take on a whole new look.... How does that go?? For me to know, and you to find out :D
B, I have a plan, no apeshitting involved, ok, maybe a little :P
PioneerPreppy... IF I do, I promise, I will :D LMFAO!!
Well Greenbow, I do call My Equinox a Crossover... Shhh... ;-)
That's what I'm aiming for AngryOne, A Happy Home :-)
NOTE to Chief Nose Wetter and Mayberry, my apologies, I accidentally deleted your comments :( Please try again if you like.
I appreciate all your comments, advice, and well wishes, it's nice to know I'm not alone... and Welcome to the first time commenters.... :-*
Good luck to you Kid. That was a tough choice to make I'm sure, but you can bang your head against a wall just so long. I forgot you and Mrs. Woodsterman have the same car.
Bless wishes to you and your daughter. You are not leaving anything when a man repeats do not let the door hit you in the butt. Methinks he will be sorry when you are gone.
Bonne chance Mlle K!
Don't get breast implants. Real beats big any day of the week, and anybody who disagrees isn't going to say anything worth listening to.
Best wishes for you and your daughter, MissK! May July 2nd (and the 4th of July wknd) bring you much happiness in your new life of Independence...! =)
We can have a coupla fingers of bourbon now.
I have just read that the national animal of Canada is the beaver. The men of Canada must be SO happy----Ray
Hope you have a happy & safe 4th of July, MissK...!
Miss K, hope all is good, update us when you can.
There are two primary choices in life - to accept the conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them - Denis Waitley
God speed and good luck on your journey
old vietnam saying knockdabottomout
Everyone Ok? How's the move going?--Ray
the best for you always
:)
I wish you the best. It's a brave thing you have done. You'll be fine. I've been there too.
Hope you are doing well,been a long time between comments.
Just remember ,we're all pulling for you.Keep your chin up!!
Wish you the best
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